In other words, don’t become a stalker - this is not good – and don’t otherwise harass or become a nuisance to your ex. This won’t win them back for you at any point in time.

(I have covered this subject more in the section “Don’t become a stalker”).

If you absolutely must see your ex for one last time (again), then go back home, take out the pieces of the photographs you shredded only yesterday and paste them back together again.

Just stay away from him/ her until you are ready to behave like a normal human being, and until your behavior can’t be classed as harassment!

Give your ex some breathing space so that they can see what a monumental mistake they made in leaving you; or if the leaving was all on your part, how much they miss you and want to get back together with you